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Sandra Morris's avatar

This is an excellent article. I have worked in both gender-based violence response and prevention for many years and the lack of progress is very depressing. I fully support reviewing the current approach. I oversaw a project that investigated the link between gambling and family violence a number of years ago and despite the findings we simply couldn't get any government buy into the issue (even though it was funded by a government funded statutory authority). We definitely need to start thinking about how to tackle the issues that underpin frequency and severity of violence against women and children.

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Stephen Lake's avatar

Excellent piece. Very encouraging to finally see some acknowledgement of the causal connection between trauma experienced in childhood, especially by boys, and their later adolescent and adult behaviour. Evidence of this has been available internationally for several decades but has not sufficiently informed Australian discussion of DV. Ambient socio-economic determinants as stressors need to be taken more seriously - they were very apparent during the lockdowns but the dots were not joined. Sexual aggression can also be driven by trauma and socio-economic disadvantage, and boys are not all inevitably seduced by porn simply because it's available. More use of half a century of research on human sexuality and its unconscious drivers would be desirable. Some coercive control is unconscious survival and compensatory strategies learned during childhood abuse and trauma and taken unconsciously into adulthood as normalised, but because the impact of trauma is not sufficiently acknowledged, and because the dominant narrative around DV assumes misogyny - which is the opposite of what is often really occurring - we still don't understand coercive controlling behaviour adequately. Childhood abuse and trauma caused not only by DV but by ANY form of abuse and disadvantage (including poverty, juvenile detention, bullying, sexual abuse etc.) can result in multiple mental health issues that are still being ignored in their contribution to alleged DV, as evidenced in responses to multiple high-profile cases. Good support for all victims at all ages and stages requires a universally and immediately accessible public mental health system, which Australia does not have, and until we DO have it, most victim survivors will be failed, and hence problems perpetuated. Resilience and recovery also require a far more socially just and inclusive and supportive society than Australia is today, which means that no matter how resilient survivors may be, they can still be failed at any later stage of their lives and revert back to previous stags of mental and behavioural distress. Suicide can be a direct consequence of DV, but suicide prevention in Australia is also still in the dark ages.

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